Good girls vs bad girls
There’s an old joke that goes: Good girls say, “No;” bad girls ask, “When?”
It’s the classic dichotomy for the male psyche — madonna vs. whore, Mary Ann vs. Ginger, housewife vs. ho, homebody vs. party girl. Which of the two is better?
As men, we’re instantly aroused by the Pamela Andersons of the world, but inside we know we could never tame — much less trust — a female like this. Instinctively we seek out more normal, down-to-earth women when we’re thinking of marriage and children.
Still, it’s a problem that never goes away. We want the best of both worlds: a princess on the street and a whore in the bedroom. Someone who is nice and treats us with respect, yet who acts like a wildcat in heat between the sheets. So just what are the advantages and disadvantages of dating bad girls and good girls? And is it possible to somehow combine the two types into one perfect woman?
First, let’s look at some of the qualities embodied by the Bad Girl:
the goods on the bad girl
She’s fun
She can party all night, drink herself into a stupor and still get up the next day and be ready for more. She’ll laugh and flirt, and make you feel like a man.
She’s exciting
Bad girls are walking adrenaline rushes. For her, life is a roller coaster ride, and it’ll get your blood singing just to be along for the trip. Bad girls never have time for introspection or depression — they’re too busy grabbing the world by the horns.
She craves sex
The bad girl loves men and makes no bones about it. She’s more than happy to fulfill any fantasy you can dream up. She’s the kind who will tear up the sheets while she’s screaming out her seventh orgasm in a row (you’ll feel like you’re the king of the sexual world). And you won’t have to deal with any head games — she’s more than happy to seduce you 24/7.
She’s eye candy
Bad girls are usually very attractive with jaw-dropping figures — the ultimate “hot babes.” They know how to walk the walk and strut their stuff. They get off on being the center of male attention. A bad girl loves plunging necklines, bare midriffs, high heels, skirts hemmed at mid-thigh, strapless anything, and sexy lingerie (if she wears any underwear at all).
She ups your status
When you have a stunner like this on your arm, all other men are jealous and women are intrigued, and immediately your stud rating soars into the stratosphere. You’ll be the stuff of legends when you regale your buddies with tales from your bedroom.
Pattaya ladyboys
Pattaya ladyboys are a common concern of newbies coming to the city. It is so because in many photos ladyboys are seemingly indistinguishable from the real girls. While Pattaya ladyboys appear very feminine to newbies there are a lot of tell-tale signs to look for that will give 99% of them away. The other 1%, well what can you do!!?? Yes, some of them will fool just about everyone. Read on to find out how to spot a ladyboy.
So what do you look at to see if a prospective partner is a ladyboy or not? The first thing you can do is look at how tall ‘she” is. Mosy ladyboys are taller than the Thai girls, as they are in our countries. If she is tall you may want to look at other factors.
Males tend to have a very straight body. Look for a nice womanly shape. Even the very thin ladies have some shape.
Pattaya ladyboys tend to have larger hands and feet than the ladies. I find that their feet give them away in a lot of cases.
Look for an Adam’s apple (see photo below.) Some ladyboys have them reduced so this is not conclusive. Also listen for a deep voice.
One dead giveaway of a ladyboy is the presence of a penis. You could always try the Crocodile Dundee grab test but that might get you in trouble. You may not discover this until you get to the room. Another reason to leave the lights on in the room!
Look for masculine feature in her face. This one is quite obvious but initially you may find it difficult. With practice you will see masculine features in ladyboys very quickly.
Ladyboys tend to use a lot of makeup. Obviously they are trying to hide things and make them more attractive to guys. Something they may be trying to hide is facial hair.
Think about how she approached you. If it was very aggressive and seductive you might want to have a bit of a think about it. It might be a turn on but remember they are guys and they know what guys like. This is a bit of a tough one as some of the ladies are also quite aggressive but not in the same way.
Have a look at who she is with. If some of her friends are ladyboy-like then you may want to have a serious think about it. Ladyboys tend to hang out with other ladyboys.
A final point is be very careful on Walking Street late are night. There are a lot of ladyboys trying to suck drunken guys in as they head home without a partner for the night.
Just because you are suspect on one or two (except the penis one) of these points may not mean that whe is a he. You need to balance it all together and make your own judgement. If you are unsure then ask her or other ladies in the bar. This may give you further clues. A ladyboy may get defensive if you ask if ‘she’ is a he. A bar girl will laugh at you.
Also remember you biggest barrier in trying to decide if your potential partner is a he or she is alcohol. You don’t have to be paranoid just have your wits about you and you should have no problems. Also remember if you don’t feel right about a particular person there are thousands of other ladies who you will not have doubts about.
If you are interested in ladyboys you may like to try Ladyboys Pattaya.
Finding a girl in Pattaya
You’ve come to Pattaya for the beaches and food and culture right? No you haven’t, admit it, you’ve come for the girls! It’s OK, many other men have too, that’s one of Pattaya’s key attractions. And the good news is, you’ll more than likely go home with some fun memories with one or more sexy girls. It doesn’t cost that much either.
Pattaya is Thailand’s sex capital – it also has other tourist attractions – and not only does it attract punters by the busload but also plenty of young sexy girls who come here to earn a living off the visitors. It all happens in a pretty open and honest way that is tolerated by the typically accepting way that Thai officials approach law enforcement. Everyone in Pattaya understands the deal.
The sexiest girls are found in the go go bars, which are more discreet and not opened up to the street-front. Here you will find girls in bikinis, sometimes topless or even naked dancing on the stage and these too can be taken home, but they are more expensive (40 euros and up). The atmosphere here is less down to earth and these girls are ‘in it for the money’. There is another level of girl altogether which is provided by private escort services, which can be ordered over the internet and come directly to your room – they are true professionals but are over-priced. If you need to be discreet this is one option.
Pattaya has been a place for visiting men to meet girls since thousands of GIs on R&R from Vietnam started coming in the sixties and the city owes its prosperity to the girls. Therefore, by the time you get here, forty years of sex tourism would have shaped Pattaya and the system is well developed for the maximum benefit of both the punter and girl. It is less sleazy than your average city red light district, far more relaxed and friendly, cheaper and open for business.
Girls calling customer to the Gogo Bars
First, finding a girl in Pattaya is easier than finding a tourist map! There are whole areas packed with bars full of girls, both during the day and evening and you can literally walk out of your hotel and have a companion within 30 minutes, no complications, rip offs or misunderstandings. Of course, remember that these girls are earning money and should be treated with respect and dignity. Also Pattaya is a vacation town for many regular people who haven’t come for the sex and wish to enjoy it without sleaze everywhere they look, so be mindful of that.
Areas where you will find girls include; the lanes between Beach road and second road – really can’t miss them, along the famous Walking Street, selected lanes in Jomtien, Body massage and some karaoke venues further out nearer the Sukhumwit road, in discos and in some of the hotels ‘massage services’ (not all massage ladies are ‘available’ but some services are set up exactly for that).
The easiest first step for finding a girl in Pattaya is to wander among the beer bars of the sois (lanes) off Beach Road. It has a festive atmosphere, the girls might accost you with ‘hello, Welcome’, but mostly they are harmless. Away from this ‘party central’ you will find less ‘in your face’ beer bar areas where you can sit and enjoy a drink while sizing up the girls, without any obligation to buy ladies drinks. The girls vary from very young and very sexy (costing 20 euros and up) to the tired has-beens in the quieter bars (costing as little as 10 euros out of season).
There are many bars along Walking Street, like this one.
You can also go to body massage and karaoke bars (ask the taxi driver), if you are sneaking away from your wife for the evening. Here you get to select a lady from behind a ‘fishbowl’ and for about 30 euros you get two hours of bath, massage, soapy ‘experience’ and sex. But be warned, these women go with a lot of men and the whole thing is rather ‘mechanical’. A better bet is the karoake bars with lots of pretty women outside to choose from, and they cost about 5 euros an hour to be your hostess on comfy sofas and often can be taken out to a short time motel or back to your hotel, but these girls like to think of themselves as premium and charge a lot more (40 euros about).
Then there are the freelancers who work outside of the bars for the freedom. These girls can be cheaper and often more fun since some of them are just regular girls or students looking for a fun evening with a handsome foreigner who will give them some pocket money. They haven’t slept with dozens of men and become bored with sex, so can be more genuine. Some hang out on the promenade along beach road. You will also meet them in the discos a lot.